Photos: Many people rely on me to keep my face a pretty little secret. I often go out in public with my dates for dinner, cultural outings/night life, and holidays, and apart from that I have a full life outside of this pasttime It is for this reason that I don't show my face in my photos - I never have and I never will.
Correspondence and screening: As protonmail is one of the most secure email services out there, offering end-to-end encryption, I have chosen to use it for all of my correspondence. I require anyone wishing to meet me or otherwise communicate with me to write to me from a protonmail address. If you prefer to receive a message from a more discreet address than what is published on this website, I have an unpublished email address that is unassociated with this name that I am happy to use instead. If we have met in the past 6 months and you would like to use me as a reference, please contact me in advance with the name, URL, and email of the specific companion who I can expect to hear from, as this gives me explicit consent to communicate about you with a specific individual.
Phone: I will never contact you by phone (either by calling or texting) unless we have previously agreed a specific time to do so. I do not publish my phone number anywhere online, so it is not google-able. My voicemail has no personal greeting, so if anyone else in your life found my number and were to call it, there would be no identifying information. I don't answer phone calls unless we've agreed to speak in advance at a specific time, for this reason. I change my phone number every few months, so if we've not met for a while, please try to remember to ask if my contact number is the same.
If we bump into each other in public: As I am a very private person who highly appreciates discretion in all things, please do not approach me if you see me in public. I could be with friends or family and it could create an uncomfortable situation for all of us. Even if I look like I am alone, I may not be. If I see you in public, I will never approach you or otherwise make it known that we are acquainted, even if you appear to be alone at the time, for the very same reasons. Thank you for understanding!