I've never done this before. I'm new and/or nervous. Will you still see me?
Of course, I would be absolutely flattered if you chose me to introduce you to the wonderful world of companionship.
Where will our date take place? Will you be able to host us? Will you come to my home or hotel?
Dates can be hosted either by you or by me. I am happy to visit you at your hotel, and with more thorough screening I can meet you at your private residence. If we are meeting in Washington DC, I am happy to book a hotel or private apartment where we can spend time together (I do not have a permanent hosting venue). Depending on a few factors, this may or may not incur an additional fee. If we are meeting during my travels, I will have a hotel room or private apartment where I can host us.
Do you date women? Couples? What about gender-nonconforming individuals?
Yes! I adore seeing women, couples, and individuals who are gender non-confirming (e.g. nonbinary/transgender/intersex, etc). Men are welcome too, of course. ;) If you would like an additional companion to join us, please let me know and I am happy to bring one of my friends.
Why did you choose to become a companion?
My friends consider me a self-reflective introvert, which is certainly true, but I honestly adore meeting new people! I love seeing people from all walks of life and corners of the world, who I otherwise would not get to meet.
I feel a bit nervous about providing you with my screening information. Can you please tell me about your screening and discretion policy?
I completely understand that sending me your screening info can be a bit nerve-wracking, for some. I ask for the minimum amount of information I need to feel comfortable and safe being alone with someone I’ve never met before. I have a very thorough privacy and discretion policy that I’ve developed over the years, you are welcome to read about it here.
May I use you as a reference?
Absolutely! If we have seen each other in the past 6 months, you are very welcome to use me as a reference when you want to see another companion. Please note that, in order to protect your privacy, I will not respond to a reference request without advance notification from you. Please email me in advance to let me know that I should expect a reference request from a specific companion - please include her name, website URL, email address, and any other relevant contact info in that message. The advance notification from you ensures that I have your explicit consent to communicate about you to a particular companion - I will also be able to respond to the request more promptly if I know who I can expect to hear from.
Do you have reviews?
Since early 2017, I have had a strict no-review policy. I value discretion too highly to have any details about our adventures together available to the public, prurient, or prying eye.
May I give you a gift?
Gifts are never necessary, but nonetheless always appreciated. If you would like to give me a gift, please consider giving me a good book. My favourite lingerie brands are La Perla and Coco de mer (32D for bra, and size small for knickers and stockings), and I always appreciate stockings from Wolford (size small) and gift vouchers to Net-a-porter. For clothing, I am typically wear a US size 4 or UK size 6 or 8, shoes UK size 4/US size 6/Euro size 37. For more ideas, feel free to peruse my Deliverycode wishlist. I always appreciate airline gift cards (please contact me for to learn about my preferred airlines), and I love to take cookery classes (I particularly have my eye on classes at the Raymond Blanc cookery school and the cookery courses and cooking classes at Leiths School of Food & Wine). Despite my immense love of chocolate and sweets, please do not give it to me as a gift - I work hard to maintain my toned, petite figure.
Deposit & Cancellation policy
What is your deposit policy?
As a part-time companion with a full life and other irons in the fire, I have a deposit and cancellation policy, which pertains to both my clients and myself. Having built an exceptional reputation as a companion over the past few years, I have zero interest in ruining that by running off with your deposit. Most dates are secured with a small, discreet deposit, which can be done easily and anonymously. Receiving this deposit is what confirms our date in my calendar. Just as many other professionals ask for your credit card or pre-payment as a guarantee (such as hotels, dentists, contractors, etc), I too ask for this. Because I will arrange my busy life around our date, having a deposit puts me at ease, which contributes to developing a great rapport even before we meet.
What is your cancellation fee policy?
For cancellations: a 25% cancellation fee is incurred within 48 hours of the start of our date, 50% within 24 hours; 100% within 12 hours. In the very unlikely event that I need to cancel, which I would only do in extreme circumstances, I will refund your deposit immediately and offer you some extra time (gratis!) during our next date. If you need to cancel outside of the 48-hour window, I will retain your deposit to be applied to a rescheduled date within two months of the original date. If you cancel with less than 48 hours notice your deposit will be applied toward the cancellation fee.
So, I have some concerns about health…
My health and yours are very important to me, so I get a full health screen done every four weeks, and I strongly encourage you to get checked regularly, too. If you have any concerns regarding a disability you might have, please feel free to contact me about this in advance and I'm certain we can ensure we both have a good time. For my health: please don't smoke around me or right before we meet (I am allergic to smoke), and please don't wear cologne or perfume as I am extremely sensitive to scents.
When we meet
What are the expectations during our date?
Grooming: I take great care of my hygiene and appearance, and put in maximum effort for our date. I expect the same in return from the people I choose to meet. This includes taking a thorough shower, brushing your teeth, and shaving just before we meet. If this is not possible (e.g. you are coming to our date directly from work or other engagement, and/or we are spending time together in public at the start of our date), I ask that you take time to shower and freshen up at the beginning of our private time together. If I feel you have not freshened up thoroughly, I won’t hesitate to ask you to do so again. Please note that I prefer freshly shaven faces or soft beards, as stubble tends to be too harsh on my skin.
Behaviour: I expect courteous and gentlemanly behaviour at all times. If I feel my consent, safety, or comfort are under threat during our time together, I reserve the right to end our date immediately without a refund.
Alcohol and substance use: I am a light social drinker (I particularly enjoy medium-bodied and heavy dry reds), but I do not partake in other substances, ever. Please note that I am not a ‘party girl’, so I will discontinue our date if you become overly intoxicated or are under the influence of any illicit substance during our time together.